The Strength in Not Settling with Guest Shannon Wilkerson

In this episode of Moving Mattresses in Three Inch Heels, I had the privilege of speaking with Shannon Wilkerson, a powerhouse of a woman who is not just a mom and a four-time published author but also a relentless advocate for personal and professional development, especially for single mothers.

Shannon’s latest book, “Girl, Go For It,” is a beacon for anyone ready to step out of their comfort zone and seize their dreams. Her approach is straightforward yet profound: don’t wait, don’t settle. And it’s not just talk; Shannon lives by these words, empowering her clients and readers to pursue their passions without hesitation.

The Strength in Vulnerability

One of the most captivating aspects of our conversation was how Shannon embraces vulnerability. Drawing from her own life experiences, she offers advice that’s both relatable and grounded in deep empathy. “Strong doesn’t mean that we’re not tired,” Shannon reminded us, “it just means we’re not settling.”

Navigating Life’s Low Points

We’ve all been there—feeling tired, discouraged, ready to throw in the towel. Shannon’s advice? Keep the big picture in mind. It’s about remembering your 'why'. It's about not making rash decisions when you're down because what’s at stake is too important. Whether it’s a personal goal or a professional dream, the clarity of your big purpose can guide you through the toughest times.

Questions That Propel Us Forward

What is it going to cost me if I don’t do this? That’s the question Shannon asks herself, a question that brings her back to her mission, especially in her role as a mother. This question isn’t just about facing fears but confronting the potential regret of unfulfilled potential.

The Power of Not Settling

Shannon emphasized that not settling extends beyond romantic relationships—it’s about friendships, familial relationships, and most importantly, the relationship with oneself. “We’re teaching our girls to take up space and be heard” Shannon shared, highlighting the shift from the lessons many of us learned growing up.

Go For It—Even If You’re Scared

Perhaps the most powerful takeaway from our talk was the mantra “Do it scared.” Shannon confessed to doing many things despite being terrified. The idea isn’t to wait until the fear is gone but to move forward despite it. This, Shannon says, is how you transform your life and truly live.

Embracing Community and Asking for Help

A significant part of achieving our dreams is knowing we can’t do it alone. Shannon spoke candidly about learning to ask for help when she became a mother, highlighting how crucial it is to build and rely on a supportive community. Whether it’s neighbors or close family, it’s about cultivating relationships that allow you to thrive.

Writing It Down and Tearing It Up

One of Shannon’s strategies for overcoming negative thoughts is to write them down and physically destroy them. This act is symbolic of letting go of the baggage that holds us back. But it’s not enough to clear out the negatives; replacing them with positive affirmations is crucial to maintaining that mental shift.

Final Thoughts

As we wrapped up our inspiring conversation, Shannon left us with a resonant message: embrace your life’s potential and don’t wait for the perfect moment. Take the leap, even if you’re scared, because the true tragedy lies in wondering ‘what if?’

Thank you, Shannon, for this invigorating conversation. For everyone listening, remember: the journey might be daunting, but it’s worth every step. So let’s jump in and do it—scared but unstoppable!

Stay tuned for more empowering stories on Moving Mattresses In Three Inch Heels. Until next time, keep pushing forward, no matter what shoes you’re wearing!

Grab your copy of “Girl, Go For It!: The Single Black Woman’s Blueprint to Living Life Fearlessly” by visiting shanniwilke.com.

Connect with Shannon Wilkerson

Facebook: @ShannonWilkerson

Website: shanniwilke.com

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